I also learned to ask myself that question. I think its our ego most of the times that wants validation. So after a date when a guy doesnt text me the next day, or he doesnt ask me out, before jumping to conclusions about whether he likes me, i ask my self: Patty do u really give a fuck? i reflect on it and the answer its usually NO.

If they don see my worth thats okay, cause i know i am worthy. We are all <3