How Long Should I Put Up With a Guy Texting Me Without Asking Me Out?

Patricia Vilchez
The Everyday Reflection
4 min readJun 16, 2022

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“How long should I put up with a guy who keeps texting and isn't me asking me out?” was the interrogative from one of the listeners from the U Up podcast, next is the context.

The email was titled Penpal relationship:

My current pen pal, I met him by accident when I spilled a drink onto him at a bar. We met up the next…

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Patricia Vilchez
The Everyday Reflection

I am a foreign young woman living and dating in Paris, sharing my experiences and some life lessons advice I pattu.v01@gmail.com