Often times they do come back, but not for the right reasons. — Perhaps you have heard about this “walking away strategy”, and it goes something like this: if you want to get a man to commit to you then you have to be willing to walk away. Seemingly men become more attracted to you when you aren't around, so apparently, they always…

If you have asked him out several times and he is still evasive then it's time to let him go. — You aren’t really supposed to try so hard. Putting things in context: So I have this sweet amazing friend and she is super into a guy she met during a night out, who doesn't seem to correspond to her feelings. For me, the whole situation is evident, for her is…

They either stay as they are or they fall apart. — It's an awful feeling to hold on for things “to develop”. Yes, there is always an exception to the rule, nevertheless, for the most part, casual relationships don't prosper into committed partnerships. Remember the saying: why buy the cow when you can drink the milk for free? Putting things in context -First Scenario Let's say…

There’s honesty in absence. — I’ve noticed that the internet and Youtube are flooded with different variations of this next question: What does it mean when he doesn’t text in three days? Or what does it mean when he doesn’t text in a week? Or what does it mean when he takes several days to…

Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Mike Finoia. “Hello Jared, in the summer of 2017, I casually dated a guy who lived in the city I was interning in, at the end of the summer I wanted…

Don't make these mistakes. — Sharing some valuable life advice from Mitchell Third insta post. 1. Not taking enough risks. Get comfortable being uncomfortable. You cannot grow when you are comfortable and growth should be the number one goal of them all. 2. Neglecting your health. How have we come to a place where material…

Let go of the expectations. ⁣ — Relationship advice with therapist Todd Baratz. #1. Relationships are not an objective reality with a right or wrong. As soon as you start approaching challenges with this binary self-righteous understanding pause and reflect. This is a big red flag, and it's coming from whitin. #2. If you want something to change you have to acknowledge the…

We only dated for three months. — Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Mike Finoia. Next is the email: “Hello there, Jared I was dating this guy I met on the apps for at least three-ish months, we are both 28 and have been…

A man's mentality on breakups. — Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Noah Gardenswartz. Next is the email: “Hello there Jared big fan of the podcast, thank you for all the advice and the laughs, keep up the good work. My question is…