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Patricia Vilchez
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Why I Don’t Recommend Dating Emotionally Unavailable People

My experience with one and three very important lessons I learned along the way. — I’ve read somewhere the following: emotionally unavailable boys will ruin you. And I could not agree more with that declaration. I thought I could handle it but the next thing I knew is that it was causing me endless pain. So what does it mean to be emotionally unavailable and what does it imply in a relationship? In a nutshell, an emotionally unavailable individual is typically someone…

Situationships

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My Experience Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Man
My Experience Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Man
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Does Walking Away to Get Him to Commit Ever works?

Often times they do come back, but not for the right reasons. — Perhaps you have heard about this “walking away strategy”, and it goes something like this: if you want to get a man to commit to you then you have to be willing to walk away. Seemingly men become more attracted to you when you aren't around, so apparently, they always…

Dating

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Does Walking Away to Get Him to Commit Ever works?
Does Walking Away to Get Him to Commit Ever works?
Dating

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How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so

If you have asked him out several times and he is still evasive then it's time to let him go. — You aren’t really supposed to try so hard. Putting things in context: So I have this sweet amazing friend and she is super into a guy she met during a night out, who doesn't seem to correspond to her feelings. For me, the whole situation is evident, for her is…

Dating

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How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so
How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so
Dating

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Casual Relationships Don’t evolve

They either stay as they are or they fall apart. — It's an awful feeling to hold on for things “to develop”. Yes, there is always an exception to the rule, nevertheless, for the most part, casual relationships don't prosper into committed partnerships. Remember the saying: why buy the cow when you can drink the milk for free? Putting things in context -First Scenario Let's say…

Dating

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Casual Relationships Don’t evolve
Casual Relationships Don’t evolve
Dating

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A Reminder That A Man’s Interest is How Often He Interacts with You

There’s honesty in absence. — I’ve noticed that the internet and Youtube are flooded with different variations of this next question: What does it mean when he doesn’t text in three days? Or what does it mean when he doesn’t text in a week? Or what does it mean when he takes several days to…

Dating

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A Reminder That A Man’s Interest is How Often He Interacts with You
A Reminder That A Man’s Interest is How Often He Interacts with You
Dating

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Is Six Years Too Late to Shoot My Shoot?

Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Mike Finoia. “Hello Jared, in the summer of 2017, I casually dated a guy who lived in the city I was interning in, at the end of the summer I wanted…

Dating

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Is Six Years Too Late to Shoot My Shoot?
Is Six Years Too Late to Shoot My Shoot?
Dating

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·Nov 28

7 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s

Don't make these mistakes. — Sharing some valuable life advice from Mitchell Third insta post. 1. Not taking enough risks. Get comfortable being uncomfortable. You cannot grow when you are comfortable and growth should be the number one goal of them all. 2. Neglecting your health. How have we come to a place where material…

Life Lessons

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7 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s
7 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s
Life Lessons

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·Nov 27

The Most Important 9 Things I Learned from My Last Relationship

Let go of the expectations. ⁣ — Relationship advice with therapist Todd Baratz. #1. Relationships are not an objective reality with a right or wrong. As soon as you start approaching challenges with this binary self-righteous understanding pause and reflect. This is a big red flag, and it's coming from whitin. #2. If you want something to change you have to acknowledge the…

Dating

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The Most Important 9 Things I Learned from My Last Relationship
The Most Important 9 Things I Learned from My Last Relationship
Dating

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·Nov 24

Help I Am Still Hung up on This Guy

We only dated for three months. — Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Mike Finoia. Next is the email: “Hello there, Jared I was dating this guy I met on the apps for at least three-ish months, we are both 28 and have been…

Dating

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Help I Am Still Hung up on This Guy
Help I Am Still Hung up on This Guy
Dating

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·Nov 13

How to Break Things Off gently?

A man's mentality on breakups. — Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Noah Gardenswartz. Next is the email: “Hello there Jared big fan of the podcast, thank you for all the advice and the laughs, keep up the good work. My question is…

Dating

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How to Break Things Off gently?
How to Break Things Off gently?
Dating

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Patricia Vilchez

Patricia Vilchez

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I am a foreign young woman living and dating in Paris, sharing my experiences and some life lessons advice I pattu.v01@gmail.com

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