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Patricia Vilchez
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Why Do Guys Text You First and Then Not reply?

What you can do in these situations. — Recently a had a former “dating prospect” reach out to me out of nowhere and then he didn't reply at all. I must admit this behavior does get on my nerves, it bothers me because even though I am not actively dating I still at times come across men like…

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Why Do Guys Text You First and Then Not reply?
Why Do Guys Text You First and Then Not reply?
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Does Walking Away to Get Him to Commit Ever works?

Often times they do come back, but not for the right reasons. — Perhaps you have heard about this “walking away strategy”, and it goes something like this: if you want to get a man to commit to you then you have to be willing to walk away. …

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Does Walking Away to Get Him to Commit Ever works?
Does Walking Away to Get Him to Commit Ever works?
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How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so

If you have asked him out several times and he is still evasive then it's time to let him go. — You aren’t really supposed to try so hard. Putting things in context: So I have this sweet amazing friend and she is super into a guy she met during a night out, who doesn't seem to correspond to her feelings. For me, the whole situation is evident, for her is…

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How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so
How Men Reject You Without Explicitly Saying so
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Casual Relationships Don’t evolve

They either stay as they are or they fall apart. — It's an awful feeling to hold on for things “to develop”. Yes, there is always an exception to the rule, nevertheless, for the most part, casual relationships don't prosper into committed partnerships. Remember the saying: why buy the cow when you can drink the milk for free? Putting things in context -First Scenario Let's say…

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Casual Relationships Don’t evolve
Casual Relationships Don’t evolve
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A Reminder That A Man’s Interest is How Often He Interacts with You

There’s honesty in absence. — I’ve noticed that the internet and Youtube are flooded with different variations of this next question: What does it mean when he doesn’t text in three days? Or what does it mean when he doesn’t text in a week? Or what does it mean when he takes several days to…

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A Reminder That A Man’s Interest is How Often He Interacts with You
A Reminder That A Man’s Interest is How Often He Interacts with You
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·1 day ago

Do You Have to Reply to a Breakup Text?

On the U Up podcast, hosted by Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, they advise one of their emailers about what to do with her breakup. Next is the email: “Hi J&J, I love the podcast and the advice you give, I wanted to get your opinion on something I've…

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Do You Have to Reply to a Breakup Text?
Do You Have to Reply to a Breakup Text?
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·4 days ago

Did He Ghost Me Because He Is Not in the Right Headspace to Date Me Because He Lost His Job?

Jared Freid host of the Jtrain podcast and cohost of the uup podcast answers this next email with guest Jordyn Woodruff. Next is the email: “Hi, Jared I need some clarity on a recent ghost that I am still hung up on. I went out with this guy on a…

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Did He Ghost Me Because He Is Not in the Right Headspace to Date Me Because He Lost His Job?
Did He Ghost Me Because He Is Not in the Right Headspace to Date Me Because He Lost His Job?
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·6 days ago

Reconnecting with an Ex, Always a Bad Idea?

Dating advice with Jared Freid. — Jared Freid, host of the JTrain podcast and co-host of the U Up podcast, provides answers in a solo episode about what to do when an ex comes back. Next is the email: “Hi Jared, I am a 27-year-old female. I had a boyfriend throughout college; he was my first…

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Reconnecting with an Ex, Always a Bad Idea?
Reconnecting with an Ex, Always a Bad Idea?
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·Sep 14

Why Is He Asking Me to Go on a Trip When He Has so Many Other options?

Because you are the easiest one. — A female listener was in the U Up podcast, as a guest, the podcast hosted by Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, asking for advice, she isn't sure if the guy she likes likes her back or if is he just a friend. So this girl met this 31-year-old man…

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Why Is He Asking Me to Go on a Trip When He Has so Many Other options?
Why Is He Asking Me to Go on a Trip When He Has so Many Other options?
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·Sep 8

How Often Should You Hear From Your Guy

Dating advice with Evan Marc Katz — In case you are not familiar with Evan please check out his website because, in my opinion, he is one of the greatest dating coaches out there. So Evan explains in this video: to start with this is more complicated than what you normally would think. This depends on a…

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How Often Should You Hear From Your Guy
How Often Should You Hear From Your Guy
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Patricia Vilchez

Patricia Vilchez

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I am a foreign young woman living and dating in Paris, sharing my experiences and some life lessons advice I pattu.v01@gmail.com

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